This Woman Has a Life

Yes, I'm beginning to write this blog at nearly 3 am... Yes, I've had a little bit to drink..

I don't understand the opposite sex. Just so you know. I don't. Do you? Does anyone? I get hit on at a bar, I get a friend request, I get a text message, I get mixed signals, I get confused, I loose interest. Good God. How does a woman keep up? I just do my own thing really. That's how I deal with it all... I do my own thing and if someone fits in to what I do, cool. If not, adios.

I'm not one of those women who drops everything for a guy. I'm not one of those women who sits around and waits. Nope. I've got better things to do. I'm a woman who has a life.

What do I want in a guy? I want someone with confidence, passion, direction, maturity and communication skills. It's that simple. Why is that so confusing for so many guys? Hmmm...

Most men seem to generalize. They think all women are the same. Wow. They couldn't be more wrong when it comes to me. I'm not a generic store brand, I'm not a replica, a similar copy of those before me. I'm unique. I'm genuine. I'm actually quite easy to figure out, just talk to me and I'll tell you. But don't think for a minute that just because it's easy to get to know me that I'm easy to win over. No no no. How wrong you are my dear. I'm picky as hell... Seriously though, just show me the real you. Show me genuine, show me intellect, show me spontaneity. And if you don't have that in you... Maybe it's just not meant to be... And if it's not meant to be, don't fret it, just move on, no hard feelings.

As my friend Bri said, "I am far too busy being an amazing, beautiful, and accomplished woman to cry about you and your nonsense. Seriously."

Sincerely,
a strong, confident and self-assured woman